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šŸ’–If You Don’t Love It, Don’t Fake It

šŸ’–If You Don’t Love It, Don’t Fake It

December 12, 2025•2 min read

ā€œFind something you love to do, and you'll never have to work a day in your life.ā€ - Harvey McCay

This Saturday is Valentine’s Day, so let’s talk about the kind of love that shows up on a random Tuesday, the love for the work. Harvey Mackay said it best: ā€œFind something you love to do, and you'll never have to work a day in your life.ā€

Here’s the leadership twist: if you don’t love it right now, you don’t need to quit tomorrow, but you do need to lead differently starting today.

1ļøāƒ£ Protect what you LOVE.

Leaders say they care about culture, people, and standards… then their schedule proves otherwise. What you consistently make time for is what you actually love.

Example: An administrator who ā€œvalues retentionā€ doesn’t just post jobs, they block 30 minutes weekly for stay-interviews and coaching, even when census is loud.

2ļøāƒ£ Real love has standards.

If you love your mission, stop tolerating sloppy execution. In leadership, that means you don’t let ā€œgood peopleā€ hide behind bad habits, vague expectations, or chronic exceptions.

Example: A CEO who truly cares about patient experience doesn’t allow the same handoff breakdown to happen ā€œbecause we’re busy.ā€ They fix the process, coach the leader, and measure it.

3ļøāƒ£ Love what you do.

Some leaders love the mission. Others love winning. Others love building teams. None of those are wrong, but confusion creates burnout. Clarity creates energy.

Example: A COO realized they didn’t hate leadership, they hated constant firefighting. They rebuilt their week around proactive rounding, KPIs, and decision-making rhythm. Same job. Different experience.

šŸ€ Final Whistle

Loving your work doesn’t mean every day feels easy, it means you know what you’re doing it for, and you lead like it matters. This week, don’t ā€œcelebrateā€ love, operationalize it.

āœ… Today's Move

3 Actions Items ...

  1. Circle the one part of your job you truly love (building people, solving problems, serving families, winning, teaching) then schedule one hour next week to do more of it.

  2. Pick one ā€œsilent resentmentā€ you’ve been tolerating (a person issue, a process issue, a standard you let slide) address it in the next 72 hours.

  3. Ask your leadership team one question in your next meeting: ā€œWhat are we doing right now that proves we love our mission?ā€ (Then write down the answer and assign one upgrade.)

I'm cheering for you!

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David Posner

David Posner, MBA,Founder of 3 Point Care Consulting is a highly experienced Senior Care Consultant and a nationally recognized speaker in the field of Aging Life Care. With over two decades of expertise in the healthcare industry, David has been instrumental in providing valuable insights and innovative solutions to address the industry's pressing challenges.​ His passion for transforming healthcare is evident in his recent appearances on major platforms, including the Tedx Stage, and numerous podcasts, conferences, and webinars. David Posner's wealth of experience and dedication to healthcare make him a prominent figure in the industry, driving positive change and providing thought leadership.

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